They are made of tough stuff and fearless. Here’s a story.
The mother of one of our smallest, in NICU for a year (20 years ago, with new technology that never happens any more) and trached at home for two years more called into NICU one night and said she felt awful. Ryan was jumping on the sofa, fell off and broke his arm. I told the nurses working nearby and they cheered! The mother on the phone asked what that was about.
I told her they were cheering her because preemies are so tenderly overprotected as they’re growing up that they can never experience life.
Your preemie as a toddler will climb on a chair and jump to the sofa. Again and again. Even falling does not stop him. I wondered why this was so common. Maybe because he has learned to trust. He trusts people because everyone in this NICU experience was essentially kind to him, and gentle. But he also has learned to trust space! Infants understand perspective and there are studies where a deep floor of black and white squares was painted on the bottom of a large sheet of glass. The mother was on the far edge and the newly crawling baby near the opposite edge. The mother called him to her and he crawled to the part of the glass painted with his edge, saw what appeared to be a drop-off and would go no further. So why do preemie infants seem to not react to the drop-off? It may be because he has lived in a glass house, perceived that it was high and was not worried about the consequences of falling.
The truth about preemies growing up is that they are made of strong stuff, happy, brave, daring, smart. Enjoy them.